Life as an older sister/daughter isn’t always easy…it is often challenging. Examples of the challenges you may face on a daily basis may include your siblings not listening to you, not appreciating all the things you do for them, and doing things that annoy you! Everyone deals with these things. There can also be extra responsibilities that fall on you as one of the oldest in the household. Despite these challenges, you need to remember daily that God created you for this special role, and you are blessed to be in your family! They are blessed to have your love and help! God made each of us for a purpose. Until we get married, our purpose is to serve our family. Serving our family doesn’t have to be a chore, it can be a joy! As the oldest sister of 9 kids, including 3 with special needs that we adopted, it can be easy for me to look at the hardships and failures instead of the good in my family and life. That is not what God intended though! He wants us to embrace our lives and to